This blog again a form of therapy; I’ve been off work a week, headed back Tuesday; just long enough to almost forget work pace. Emotional week with the kids on a road trip; nearly 500 miles in four days; then back to a home improvement effort, painting the oldest kid’s room; a not-so sorta big …
Author: jeff lud
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Ratcheting Up
Feels like it’s time to be ratcheting up, my kids quickly aging, not feeling ready, Feels like it’s time to be ratcheting up, holding the line higher, if not me, who? Their mom of course, at her house, but what about my house, what about out in the world? Not ready, really not ready, time …
One Washer Load
Considering time-off work, extended leisure, vacation, and duration therein; here in the states we're not much for time away from the job, the career, the achieving, that Protestant work ethic still quite active in American Society. I for one say it gets tiring. And so getting time away from it all is all the more …
Pismo Lesson: Meet Them Where They Are
"Meet them where they are" ... good phrase, good attitude, good lesson. I've heard it used when talking about helping people in crisis, people unhoused, that sort of thing. A social worker might say, "...we meet them where they are to help establish rapport and a baseline of needs...", something like that. The phrase has …
Remembering Iggy
Remembering Iggy — Ignatius of Loyola — lived some 500 years ago, a Spaniard, a soldier, then a monk, mystic, and then theologian and author of the Spiritual Exercises (among other writings), and founder of the Society of Jesus, a Catholic religious order; This day his feast day in the Church, 31 July, as good …
Prove Yourself, Everyday
This from a FB fan page for the San Francisco Forty Niners, The message simple, the message clear, it’s the best way to be, consider yourself, Be humble, focused, determined to get better every day, “” 49ERS: RB Coach Bobby Turner, doesn’t care about the HYPE.. “I don’t care where you were drafted. Once you …
Clunky
A word that comes to mind for me sometimes when I’m having trouble relating, cooperating, collaborating with others, Came to mind most recently when the kids came back to my house after being with their mom for a few days, Clunky, Is it me, or them…maybe we…just taking a bit to find the groove, smooth …
Looking For Spiders
Such a torment, for me for you, looking for spiders, late at night and early morn, such a waste, Time, energy, emotion, murderous intent, the fear and the loathing and the hate consumes you, Don’t let it, Don’t let it, and don’t look for spiders.
Deep The The Furs
I went to a live show recently, right here in our own San Jose, California, downtown. The Psychedelic Furs were playing the summer concert series, “music in the park“, it was a really fun time. An old friend had won tickets from some website, some promoter… And my buddy asked me if I wanted to …
Honoring Grit & Continuity
Honoring Grit & Continuity, good baseline to live by, Heard this the other day, perspective on sport competitors, teammates leaving it all on the court during a play-off run, The sport at the time was basketball, but really any sport well served by grit & continuity, Cornerstones of effort and decisions in life around the …
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