Pulled this one down again; an oft-repeated theme for this guy become a single parent almost a year back now. I’m sure my kids mom feels the same. All single parents do; even if you’re in ahold co-patenting 50/50 gig like we are. Damn! Just keep up, it’s rough sometimes…or at least, it’s about all …
Category: parenting
All Saints’ Day
The day some honor all those deemed “saints” by the church. Maybe that’s even small “c” church; all groups have those model folks others are inspired to emulate. Good idea to learn from those who’ve gone before us, those who have set a good example, who have showed us the way. Those who live in …
All Hallows’ Eve
Dia De Los Muertos. Wasn’t raised it part of our family now; My kids lead the way with the tradition; glad to have this modest, make-shift altar in honor of those who have crossed over; notably my dad, things he liked too. Others honored as well tho’, on the “ofrenda”, you are all remembered, and …
Eve Hallows Eve
On the eve of Hallows Eve, what to do? How to prep? Reflection to Friday Night, End of month, a little extra busy at work, decision for full decompress, couch time, hoodie, WS Game 3, wandering and reading little screens. Later Saturday, final decorations, carving Jack O’Lanterns, big dose of kids time, and then…BOO! Boston? …
Look For The Little Things: GOOD
I think about it frequently, looking for the gems that can make the moment little better. It doesn’t take much, like, Being warm, early morning, to start the day; Fresh taste after brushing your teeth; Sips of ice brew in the pre-dawn darkness to start the day. A hug from each kid to say good …
Reflections: Tribe, Time Off…Transitory?
As I wind up a few days with old friends, in a place that I find particularly peaceful and restorative, I reflect, Just what is it that makes this time so valuable, powerful, desired? How can I create more of this mindset in my daily life? How can I make the hustle and bustle of …
Respite, Recharge, Coast
The elements. The sounds. The feelings. Neskowin has the particular magic only a coastal place offers. I love the mountains too, for sure, but, Well the ocean is the x-factor, for eternal goodness, sound, vibe. I love it. And this particular coastal place, there’s just few places like it that I’ve been to that make …
The Elder, My Daughter / Partner
A fresh idea came to mind recently; I think it might have some momentum. Elevate her, it helps us both. Listening. Enjoying. Engaging. In this new family model, we sure benefit from better cooperation and teamwork. Easier all around with everyone aligned. Giving it a try, anyway. It’s a new approach, expanded mindset on my …
Toward SoulTime: Quick Week Underway
Blessed to have another long weekend up ahead, taking a couple days off work to make it a long weekend on the coast. Annual trip, maybe close to 30 years running, more or less. Same group of five guys, “The Mexicans” (my nickname). Early on in the tradition we went over the border to Mexico …
Redux: No Fear
Several years back I wrote a piece about "No Fear" -- at the time I mentioned "...in the face of the dragon...", or something like that. I recall feeling strongly about the idea of standing up to things we might fear. That theme has come up countless times, especially with my three kids, over the …
1/2_Full, All GOOD 