I’ve been asking myself the wrong question for years,
it’s not a good practice, not a good idea to focus on things you can’t control, pipe, dreams, unrealistic to the moment, the reality, personalities, and human nature,
Rather than asking yourself over and over why something is a particular way, instead consider how fortunate you are for a given circumstance, if there’s a reason to be grateful, even if it’s not to your exact perfect idea,
This may all seem vague, I can see that it is actually, but I share this thought in the abstract because it’s very close to home with people close to me,
and the lesson helps me have a better attitude, the lesson that it does you no good too ask the wrong question.