It's been quite a ride with my son thus far in his six years on this earth. When he was born I was naturally super-stoked to have a boy, and it's been joy, a delight, a massive set of lessons, and a blessing everyday. Well, almost every day. : - ) Helping him along in …
Author: jeff lud
Four Eyes
Don't make fun of others, that's a basic life lesson. "Four Eyes!" is a childish way of Making fun of someone who wears eyeglasses. Granted too that it's mostly used by kids, or was back in the day...but the point is the same. Be nice to others. Treat them as you'd like to be treated. …
GOOD.
What's it going to be today? GOOD. That's my default. It might not play out that way, but that's the way I'm gonna receive it. The weekend though? It was legit GOOD. It was busy for sure, but for all the right reasons. Soccer started up again for two of our three kids; and my …
Sometimes Church is Elsewhere
I've heard it said a few times in my life, "church isn't always inside the building." In essence, church is where ever people of faith gather and share prayer and fellowship. At least that's my take, when I boil it all down. Certainly there is the presence of God, and there is sometimes a sense …
Back to the Pitch
It's that time of year again. Back to the pitch. Two of our three kids are playing this season. So thankful my wife played the game and is willing to coach. She's a natural. She's a teacher already; this gives another outlet for her skills, insights, and energy. It's also a welcome comfort, I think, …
“By the pricking of my thumbs…”
"By the pricking of my thumbs, something wicked this way comes." This phrase comes from a novel by American writer Ray Bradbury, who first published the work in 1962. I read it 19 years later, when it was assigned reading in my 9th Grade Literature class. It had a big influence on my perspectives as …
Fix The Ear
My son got a toy mouse last weekend. Really to be more specific, it was a cat toy that looked like a mouse. Not long after he got it -- maybe fifteen minutes -- he tied to take the tag off the toy; the tag was attached to the little ear; the little ear pulled …
Let’s RUSH
I've had a forty-year love affair with the Canadian progressive (?) rock band, RUSH. They were one of the first bands I sort of "discovered" on my own through the radio. RUSH was also the first band for which I looked "back" to earlier albums, when I had caught up on what they had released …
Even More Respect…
I've always respected single parents and the Herculean efforts it takes to keep their family together and on the right track. My respect was "at an arm's length;" that changed recently. A few weeks back my wife went to a conference out of town. She was gone for four nights. Since it's summer time, our …
Guest Post: “Ain’t got time for the summer time blues…”
One of my old college friends recently posted the following story on his website. Yet another good example of taking that lemon, and making lemonade...or finding the good in a bit of a disappointing situation, or just flippin' coping with how life goes sometimes. Steve Debenedetti Emanuel, LMFT, and all around good dude. Dad, Husband, …
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